🕑 Added 2021-03-11 11:53:19 +0000 UTC
Lounge Lessons #1: Pre- Session Nerves? Don't worry, Mistress can guide you.
When a client cancels a session last minute with multiple excuses, I am not surprised. Booking a session with a dominatrix can be quite a scary situation. The client usually doesn't have a clue what might happen, whether the service provider will look the way her pictures show, or if she will do what was pre-negotiated, and multiple other doubts and what-if's. It's normal to get "cold feet" or nerves before a session and then any small inconvenience becomes a reason to cancel... This is the adult version of "the dog ate my homework".
But what most people don't know is that many times, the client is actually attracting these inconveniences as a way to reduce the pre-session anxiety. The human body likes to stay within a narrow band of neuro-chemistry, the"comfort zone". That is a safe and relaxing space, but it can also create stagnation and boredom. People seeking out Dominas and other service providers in the adult industry are usually longing for some excitement. Yet, if the pre-session anxiety is too strong, the subconscious mind will grab at ANYTHING to return to the "comfort zone".
So now that you're aware of this, what to do about it? Watch the video to learn more.
Have you ever experienced this as a service provider? Share your experiences in the comments!
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