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It’s amazing to be around at a time when being “sex positive..
🕑 Added 2021-12-16 23:54:43 +0000 UTC It’s amazing to be around at a time when being “sex positive” is a thing! People are opening up and pushing the boundaries of themselves and their partners. It’s a modern day renaissance of experimentation. Whether you are experimenting with breath play (i.e. slightly ch-oking), restraints (i.e. cuffs, scarves, rope), fl-ogging (spanking with whips/paddle), anal play (i.e. licking, penetration, p-egging) it’s important to have a safe word. Everyone knows what a safe word is but, are you acknowledging and using one?If you do not know what a safe word is, it is a form of verbal consent and a way to communicate that your experience is getting too close to your personal boundary. It is part of an ongoing conversation with you and your partner. It is about respect and safety.
Don’t use words like “no” or “stop” use something creative that you and your partner have discussed. Those words can normalize and even promote r-ape culture. We can be more creative than that!
All that said, even if you consider yourself the most vanilla person in the world when it comes to sex, there's still a place for a safe word. Just because you and your partner prefer missionary and doggy style as opposed to being tied up and flogged doesn't mean that you shouldn't have a word to let each other know that it's time to stop.
Do you have a safe word you use to communicate with your partner?
