Hey good morning!
So you guys are probably wondering why I..
🕑 Added 2023-04-13 15:38:49 +0000 UTC
Hey good morning!
So you guys are probably wondering why I don’t really do many collabs. I’ve never really been up front with you about it so here’s a little explanation about that:
The girls I collabed with in the past were kinda “situationships” who I trusted and were/are also other creators. We were attracted to each other so we created some content. They weren’t strangers to me.
Idk about other creators, but personally I’m not really in this to say “I do onlyfans” and use that to get some quick play. Not to be cocky, but I don’t need a gimmick to meeet and talk to women. Also “creators” who do that are probably sleaze balls and I don’t want to be associated with that. Onlyfans already has enough of a negative stigma around it. So when I meeet someone new I won’t lie and will absolutely own what I do when asked, but I’m also not super forthcoming and try to avoid coming off as wanting to use this as a fuckboy ploy to get with women as much as possible.
Next, when I meeet someone who is okay with what I do but not a creator themselves, I also have to be careful about what I may post of them. It’s happened before where I was involved with a girl, we made content and I posted it because she said it was okay. But the relationship didn’t work out and she asked me to take it down, which I did immediately. Lesson learned.
To be honest with you, sometimes some of the younger women (non-creators) I meeet want to impress me so bad they are “willing to make content with me 😍”, and while that’s amazing and flattering, a lot of times these girls are younger (22-27) and not thinking clearly. I’m an adult and am fully aware of my decisions, but I’m very careful to not hastily post something that a woman I cared about will regret because it felt okay in the heat of the relationship. I don’t want to potentially contribute, or even be held responsible for a decision someone else made.
No, this isn’t fully a “good guy” act. Yes I don’t want to hurt any girls feelings, but I also don’t want some vindictive bitch trying to ruin this. (Even though I think onlyfans is buckling down on this by either requiring a consent form or tagging the other creator in the post).
So I think the general public thinks onlyfans creators just dm each other and meeetup and fuck and that’s that. And yeah I’m sure some do. I have no idea how it works in the gay community, but in the straight community it doesn’t seem to be that easy, nor am I sure I want it to be. I’m not trying to catch any thing, I don’t want a kid with the wrong woman, and I respect myself more than to just fuck any creator off the street. One wrong decision is all it takes.
Also I’m not a pornstar. I don’t work for any of those porn companies, I’m not in some database people can call to schedule this kinda work. Pretty much everything you’ve seen of me on any social media I have created myself. I don’t have anyone promoting me, I don’t pay to promote myself, I don’t have some assistant actively looking for work for me, or helping with any social media.
I intend to keep creating content for as long as I can, and in order to do so I’ve gotta be smart about it. I’m not looking to find a creator and make some ratchet shit you can find on any janky porn site. I want to make some good stuff.
I’m patiently waiting and looking to find the right creator I can create high quality non solo content, and a lot of it. Because believe it or not I am always trying to get better at this.
Just some 3 years ago I was a dude working in a 9-5 who had absolutely no knowledge of taking pictures, photography, lighting, onlyfans, fitness instagram, etc. I knew literally nothing. And I still have SOOOOO much to learn.
So while some of you may be completely satisfied with everything, and others may be desiring more, in my eyes I can still do so much better at all of this, and I’m going to. More creativity, better pictures, better settings, costumes, going live more on other platforms, starting YouTube consistently, etc. I WANT to get good at all of it, but it’s a lot for one guy to learn, practice, implement and perfect all by himself. But i promise i’m going to fucking do it, just wait 😤. I will figure it out.
But yeah I just wanted to give you guys an explanation because I do get asked about collabing a lot. And I want you guys to know that yes, I’m trying to find collaborators as well and I want to make some great content for you all!
Thanks for reading my long rant lol. I really appreciate you all!! 🙌🏼 I’ll be posting soon 😎
