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BLOG #2 - THE REAL WOMAN, THE REAL ORGASM Hello everyone! I..
🕑 Added 2020-11-20 15:52:22 +0000 UTC BLOG #2 - THE REAL WOMAN, THE REAL ORGASM Hello everyone! It's been a while since I have made a blog post here, but I thought I would do one regarding a topic that has been coming up quite frequently in my time at work as a camgirl, and sex worker in general: the female orgasm and stigma surrounding it. Bouncing off of my last blog post about mainstream, 'free' porn being so wide spread and accessible, I mentioned another downside of porn: fake orgasms. As many people who have cammed with me, or seen content of me orgasming will know, not every orgasm is as violent, loud or 'all over the place' as porn so often makes it out to be. Some are soft, barely noticeable, hardly there - some don't even involve the vagina! How many of you can honestly say you knew that? During lockdown in the UK, I have been taking the time to learn more about my body and learn that instilling boundaries with people that I share my services with is important. I mean, you're paying me after all, why should I ever give you something that is not genuine? It's just not what I'm about! I have since discovered that orgasms can happen in more than one place of your body, at once, not at once, or one after the other. For example, with the right stimulation, I can make myself have a 'nipple orgasm', which is usually just as intense as giving myself a 'clitoris orgasm'. I have, however, to this day, never experience a 'vaginal orgasm' brought on entirely by penetration. Which is where I think a lot of partners need to learn to understand a woman's body. It is VERY common for women to NOT cum from penetration at all - like me! This is why foreplay should be stressed to such an extreme extent. If the women is wet, aroused, and has cum at least a few times, the sex will feel SO much better than if she isn't into it. I've composed a few tips on what works best for me, as a woman who cannot cum from penetration alone! And I will be making a fingering tutorial sometime this week as a part 2 of this blog post! It will be available for free on my page! HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN CUM WITHOUT PENETRATION: - Clitoris stimulation: Remember, not every woman is the same! ASK her how she likes it, and ASK her how fast. Communication between partners is vital during sex. What you may have seen in porn, may or may not work for her. You don't know until you ask! Clitoris stimulation is however, the sure fire way to make a girl cum. I mean, the genuine medical description for the organ is an organ of sexual arousal! - Fingering: 9/10 not many girls like the hardcore fingering that goes on in porn. Soft and gentle is usually key when it comes to genitalia. Unless she has explicitly expressed otherwise - NO TEETH! NO FLICKING!: The amount of sexting sessions I have had where men talk about grazing a clit with their teeth, nibbling on it, or flicking the bean. No. Just no. As I said, continuous pressure on the clit, whether with the flat or tip of a tongue, fingers, or a toy, is key to optimum pleasure - but ALWAYS ASK!! Another top tip as a bonus? Be sure to cut your finger nails! Your girl will thank me later (;
