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Discussion - What’s a ‘green flag’ you always look for in someone?
🕑 Added 2025-08-04 23:01:02 +0000 UTCRed flags get all the attention. “He texts his ex.” She says ‘I’m not like other girls’ unironically. They think edging is just a...
Red flags get all the attention.
“He texts his ex.”
She says ‘I’m not like other girls’ unironically.
They think edging is just a landscaping technique.
But let’s flip it.
What’s a green flag you always look for in someone?
Could be deep, like emotional availability or healthy conflict resolution.
Could be dangerously hot, like knowing how to fix the car engine.
Could be the voice. You know the one.
Drop your green flags in the comments and let’s romanticise the hell out of being treated well for once.
Comments
TaylorMack01 Robinhood
Someone who makes the conscious effort to have me in their life even when they get busy sometimes
Tovah
As a handicap person, this is what I need, when it comes to green flags- Someone who respects my mind, body and spirit. Someone kind, gentle, patient and understanding. Someone who can stay calm under pressure and take charge if need be. Someone honest. Someone who remembers all the important little things about you, like your favorite movie or poem. Someone who will accept all of your flaws. Someone who is confident not arrogant. Someone who continues to grow and learn. Someone humble. Someone who will stand with you through every trial and tribulation of life.
Zaya
-Someone who likes to joke around but can be serious. -knows boundaries but is willing to push them a little when they know it would lead to positive change - protective but not toxically possessive -likes to try new things -sitting in a room together in comfortable silence -Chambers, Gallo, Robinson 😭
Bonnie Bunny
Someone who can give me my space when I need it but is able to see it when I say no to comfort but I mean yes as I struggle with pushing people away when I need help
Olivia Higdon
Someone who listens and then remembers what you said. They are able to surprise you with your favorites, whether it’s flowers or your favorite treat, or will make the bed because they know it matters to you. They do so without being asked just because it will make you smile. On top of that. Someone who has a sense of humor. We can laugh during sex because let’s face it, sometimes funny things happen.
GamerGal8684
Someone who is willing to listen and not just hear. Though…gravely deep voices is a very green light too ;)
yellowbricks
sense of humor.
August Evermore
Green flag: If he can say something good about Taylor Swift without being prompted. I’m paying attention to how he speaks about women.
Ketrinna Hammell
When he texts you cute memes that made him think of you. My partner knows I like hamsters so sends me hamster pics or drawings with cute sayings through out the day.
