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What makes someone good in bed

🕑 Added 2023-06-08 14:00:07 +0000 UTC

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Anne Hotkins

Communication and listening

Dawn Seals

All of the above and you decide what well endowed means to you... and You as a woman need to incorporate alot of those above mentioned bullet points being a fabulous lover will more than likely draw a fabulous lover to you, like energy attracts like energy.... 👍

I just need someone atp

HisFiestyBeauty

Someone who really cares about you, period. If they care, you are more comfortable with them and therefore communication is going to be better and that is everything! With communication you can explore so much more and find what what works for both (or more of you 😜 )

Kate

Someone who isn’t afraid to laugh during

Morgan Strnad

All of the above

Tambrilyn A Dvorski

The biggest evolution of my sexuality came from realizing that a person will never be 100% compatible with you. Which is why I’m polyamorous. Once I accepted compatibility limitations, my world of sexual intimacy increased dramatically.

Ana D.

And I choose, and I choose, and I choose...🫣🫣🫣

Rachel (gr33neyed_gemini)

Ah, that could be. Something wonky on my end then!

destiny

Not me choosing all but two 🫣

Ellie

Multiple choice works for me ❤️ really hard to click though on the app. Browser works fine

Izzy

Ddlg

miso

It will always be the emotional connection one for me because everything else always comes after

pillowcurls99

THIS!!! omg yes!

Han

100% agree with youuuuu eye contact and masturbating together are just🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

Best Kept Secret

think it's Patreon app being dumb, I very carefully picked multi choice this time lol

Best Kept Secret

think it's just Patreon being silly in some apps, it does show more that are not 0% now. i very meticulously picked multiple choice this time lol

Trista K

Confidence in knowing we’re going to have a good time, even when trying something new. Or recovering from an “oops”.

Emmanuelle Yeremou

Lol. Still single choice

AuthentiKata

You missed "good communication skills before and after"

Elles belles

Well I guess the virgin in me wants to say someone who doesn't snore to loudly or move to much when sleeping (I have never shared the bed in my life 😂). I guess I am very innocent, even though I listen to this stuff lol 😆

Rachel (gr33neyed_gemini)

It's still single choice 😄

🫧Ms.Bratzilla🫧

I think my standards are high, my cherry haven’t even been popped yet. But honestly thanks to knowing BKS, I’ve got to learn more about what my fantasies are and my preferences. After that recent honeymoon audio with Mr.Chambers, it got me rethinking my virginity, wether to wait until marriage, I did want that since forever, but I was also considering just to go for it if found the right guy. I was given too many advises and opinions from friends, but all I think about what if this or what if that.

Ellis

Other.... for me, they are good in bed if they know how to communicate well... whether it's verbal or nonverbal communication. Them wanting to know how I am doing, feeling, what I want more of, etc., as well as them telling me (with words or clear body language) how they are doing during sex, regardless of if it's intimate and sensual, or crazy and wild, or role-playing, or even just a quickie... communication is essential to what makes someone an adequate lover versus a GREAT lover whom I'll want again and again!

Karmaismyb0yfriend

Someone who prioritizes “outercourse” that’s what they call it in She Comes First book

Doña Yayi

An absolute yes for me first will be the connection. In order to have a healthy relationship and a deliciously fun and exquisite sex life there has to be a connection, lots of chemistry, communication, and trust. The second most important thing is to be veeeery vocal. I love a man who is very vocal and expressive. I melt in the man's hands when he talks dirty i love it its a turn on for me 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥. Foreplay is very important too, fingers, toys, but my favorite is cunnilingus omg that will get my blood hot and heart racing!!! Ohh and yes i love a man who prioritizes my pleasure first. He makes sure i feel good but he also makes me feel loved and safe very important ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Persephone

Not me been really confused, thinking I imagined it been Friday when Rob said Thursday, only to realise I’m in Australia not the UK and like 12+ hours ahead 😂 🫣

Agent Paper

There are too many choices.🤣

Hannie

😅 it's okay Rob, thanks for the poll... I've never really thought of this question tho... I gotta really think

BunnyRabbit

Foreplay doesn't start with kissing, penetrative sex is not the only way to have pleasure with a partner, eye contact is everything, looks are irrelevant because the person you want will always be the most beautiful person you’ll ever seen, and masturbating together is underrated