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DISCUSSION - What are your thoughts on cuffing season?

🕑 Added 2021-11-17 23:00:03 +0000 UTC

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Sweet Ree Leese

The only "cuffing season" permissible involves restraints not constraints 😉

Just_call_me_V

Ok so hear me out. When I first heard about Cuffing Season, I thought I heard "cupping". I had a Mom moment. My oldest daughter soon corrected me after 3 months. But, it's not for me. I'm either in a relationship or nothing. Not bashing anyone else, it's just not for me.

Cat

Just here to have a good time regardless of the season! Being ready for commitment will occur when I'm actually ready vs feeling pressured to

Crystal S.

I'm too old for "cuffing season". Either you want a real relationship or not.

Best Kept Secret

That's a good strategy 👏

Best Kept Secret

❤❤❤

Best Kept Secret

*proceeds to convince girlfriend to plant a massive pumpkin patch in the garden. For Halloween purposes of course

Mary

🤔 I just buy myself men's oversized hoodies, some good wine, and watch all the dumb Hallmark movies with none of the drama. No need to settle lol.

Best Kept Secret

Same, I constantly see people doing it, probably unconsciously but never seen it end well either like you say

Best Kept Secret

Yeah I feel like it is press spin or creating a new word for old behaviours!

Leandra

I thought "Cuffing Season" was Valentine's day😂😂😂

LadyAnime

Not noticed this behavior in myself when I was single….but it’s been a while

Maresci Garza

Fun fact: the smell of pumpkin is an afrodisiac, especially towards men! So because it’s a scent typical to these autumn/winter months it could be one of the reasons people get into relationships✨

cayris

I think it's a thing, for sure. Whether done intentionally or not may be another question. Settling? Never. Choosing to see romantic partners will never be as amazingly scripted as they are on TV? Yeah, maybe. This year, I'm cuffing to Best Kept Secret. It may be settling, but it's also perfectly scripted.

Mary pearl

I personally don't think cuffing season works. Not in the long run. I see couples get together in Fall/Winter and by Summer they are no longer together. I don't drink alcohol so I just remain to myself. The right one will come in time.

Maria xoxo

I agree there is a certain group of people that practice cuffing during this time however I have never seen it end well

Kae Kae Ellis

No one wants me during the rest of the year, do not come to me because you're lonely and cold lol

Alexis Fire - The Flyest Spy

Not the Coors Light 😂😂😂😂 Im weak!

Kata

This seems like a very inauthentic way to ask for what you want...if you want a relationship decide if you want to wait for someone "compatible"...or settle for who is available. Just be honest with yourself and any partner.

Ashlen

I never really thought about having any sudden urge to be "cuddled" just because the weather is changing and the holidays are coming. Doesn't seem smart in the long run to fill a void with someone unless it's mutual that we just want to hang out and shit isn't serious. If anything a lot of people are going through seasonal depression and need a distraction. This is where your patreon comes in for me 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

Laciest

Seems like a weird new trend for old habits. Colder weather aka Winter coupling has always been a thing only made more forefront by current events. I believe ‘cuffing seasons’ to be any time of year and due to personal experiences aka post breakup/rebounding/I-guess-I’ll-just-end-up-an-old-spinster-with-12+-cats kind of a thing. Guess you could say I’ve experienced a few of these myself ... 😳

Dame

Eh, cuffing season comes and by June the couples are broken up with, pregnant, engaged, or still going strong. It exists for those that practice and show it off on social media. I've never participated but I see it happen in my town all the time