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Personal Update
🕑 Added 2022-08-26 16:06:03 +0000 UTCSummary and warning:This post is incredibly grim. If you're sensitive to anything at all involving illness or cancer, please don't proceed. The jist of this is that I'm struggling to process things and am tapped out for money from all the chaos. If you can increase your patreon support, I will greatly appreciate it, or you can donate to my ko-fi here: https://ko-fi.com/unnamedart
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Well. During my last update, I mentioned that my mom is sick. Well, she was going for tests and then her health really plummeted.
She was hospitalized last week and I rush last weekend to go and find out the situation. She has lung cancer, stage 4 and things are nearing the final slide to the end.
My mom doesn't have short or long term disability. Her insurance is running out since she's still employed, but hasn't worked a full month so their system isn't paying for it. (we're looking to use her paycheck or 401k to pay her insurance to keep it going).
She's received hospice homecare support with a family relative and we've bought her alot of comfy blankets and pillows to give her some final comfort.
My dad appeared to not be all there, maybe shock or maybe something worse, but I noticed during my last visit that something was off. He needs to understand that he can't go back home, he'll be alone and no one can take care of him there.
Guys, I'm heartbroken right now. My work gave me time off, but my sister is awesome. She's handling everything cause she knows I'm not taking things well. I'm tempted to show you her e-shop to support her, but I don't want her things to be associated with my kind of work. If you're willing to buy something handmade/drawn and is furry related, you can message me and I may show you it.
Right now I'm burying my head in my art, but I'm just getting overwhelmed. No one's explained how long is left. I know it's just more bad news from me and it seems unrelenting, but thank you for your support. It means tons to me.
Comments
Martin Gray
My thoughts go with you, my girlfriend's mother is also giving cancer, I hope you can stay together through it all.
DrewB
U, First: I'll see what I can do. Will probably up my level on 9/1. Second: I understand and empathize. We've had cancer in our family and it's absolutely horrible. My heart goes out to you and your family. Stay with your daily routine, find time to breathe, sleep and eat when you can. Keep up your strength, lean on your loved ones and let them lean on you. It's not easy but you can do this.
unnamed47
I'm grateful for it. thank you 💖
john fraioli
Just donated what I could on ko fi and oddly enough upped my patron this morning. I wish I could do more. Keep your head up as best you can.
