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Guided breathing audio (December bonus)
Hi, everyone. I did a guided breathing this month to complement the breathing educational video!So, go somewhere quiet, get comfortable and get ready to breathe!xoxo
Guided breathing transcript (December bonus)
Hi, everyone. I thought that in line with doing an educational video about the importance of breathing, that I would lead a guided breathing. This is similar to a guided meditation. This is something you can start your day with, something you can end your day with. You can get into the practice of it, you can implement it when you are stressed out, when you just need a second to yourself. This is just something generally that can help you relax, get into your body, get in touch with yourself.The first thing I would like you to do is try to find...
#AskRaquelSavage (December - submission)
Hey!! Reply with questions for December's #askraquelsavage q&a - you can ask me anything you want and I'll choose 3-5 questions to answer!xoxo
Please, stop hitting your kids (December's #TPTT)
Really quick about kids…There are hella different things going on with kids developmentally that, if disrupted, can hinder their emotional, social and intellectual growth. Every step of the way, kids are observing, learning and internalizing – all of which are directly affected by their environment. At their earliest stages, kids depend entirely on their caretakers for all of their needs. During this time, kids are already learning about trust, security and communication. A child’s sense of safety is built around knowing their basic needs...
Deep breathing (December's educational vid - early access)
Hey! Happy holidays muh fuckas! This month we're learning about the benefits of deep breathing. From yo belly! Tap in and stay tuned cuz I may be dropping a guided breathing exercise later in the month!Link: https://www.dropbox.com/s/3hqxqqxzszm84le/Breathing.mp4?dl=0xoxo
(Drunk) Hoe Tales - November
When you fuck the DJ and the dick is life changing...Link: https://www.dropbox.com/s/ftebe7rrrv2qaw0/Hoe%20Tales.mp4?dl=0
Pregnancy, childbirth & the role of a Doula (October's live stream)
My bad for not posting this sooner! Someone just emailed and asked for it and I realized I totally forgot to post it! This live features @ThankyounickyLink: https://www.dropbox.com/s/5ask4okjsydpk4p/Nicky%20LIVE.mp4?dl=0xoxo
Thirst Traps 101 (November's live stream)
Happy holidays, folks! Here's the recording for November's live stream!Link: https://www.dropbox.com/s/06hqf3atu07jqnl/Thirst%20Traps%20101.mp4?dl=0xoxo
#AskRaquelSavage (November)
Yeoo! This month I answered the following questions:1. Is porn addiction real? How much is a healthy amount of porn?2. Does Plan B work when you're ovulating?3. Sex Work (basically just reminded folks I have 2 live streams about the topic)4. My Instagram technique for baiting athlete lolEdit: I forgot to say that Plan B may affect fertilization and implantation, however, Plan b's major focus is delaying ovulation.xoxo
HBO Unboxing (November Bonus)
Yeoooo for this month's bonus I'm unboxing some amazing shit from HBO for a new show (Mrs. Fletcher) they're promoting!Tap in, this is my first literal "unboxing" so that was fun LMAO I'm officially a whore influencer, wow <3Link: https://www.dropbox.com/s/7msd8tiiov0fw8h/HBO%20Unboxing.mp4?dl=0
Call Me By Your Name (November's #TPTT)
TW// love, heartbreak, age disparityI recently became obsessed with Timothée Chalamet. I’ve been called WMW…LMAOAnyway…I started with The King and then watched Call Me by Your Name. I tweeted about watching (and loving) CMBYN and (some) peoples’ immediate response was about the age difference between the two main characters – immediately dismissing it. To be brief, it is a story about a family in Italy who is visited every summer by a grad student who helps the father archive archeology shit. This particular summer the family is visi...
Birth Trauma (November's educational vid - early access)
Hey! I commissioned Nicky (IG Thankyounicky) the Doula from October's live stream to discuss birth trauma for November's educational video. This was so interesting for me to learn about in-depth since it was something I knew very little about or ever considered.Tune in and make sure to follow Nicky and check out her website thankyounicky.com :)Link: https://www.dropbox.com/s/b8rr57j4ntoc23b/Birth%20Trauma.mp4?dl=0xoxo
Prison Abolition discussion w/ Nnenna (October's Bonus)
Hey! So, the topic of prison abolition keeps popping up on my TL and it's something I'm super unfamiliar with but have an interest in and think, generally, I agree with. So, I decided to chat with an expert, Nnenna Amuchie, about the topic!This was really enjoyable for me; I hope it helps anyone who is also trying to learn or is a good listen for folks who are already deep in the prison abolition community :)Make sure to follow Nnenna on twitter: @theAfroLegaliseLink: https://www.dropbox.com/s/lsmdx6a2hggj289/OCTOBER%20BONUS%20VID.mp4?d...
(Drunk) Hoe Tales - October
Athlete orgy shit.Link: https://www.dropbox.com/s/9gswy9j2zqer5k8/OCTOBER%20HOE%20TALES%201%20V4.mp4?dl=0xoxo
#AskRaquelSavage (October)
Yerr! I answered questions this month about incalls v. outcalls, STD/HIV transmission via oral sex, boundary setting, getting into Femdom and how to set rates for sex work. Here are some additional links!Boundaries: https://www.uky.edu/hr/sites/www.uky.edu.hr/files/wellness/images/Conf14_Boundaries.pdfTransmission:https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/risk/oralsex.htmlhttps://www.cdc.gov/std/healthcomm/stdfact-stdriskandoralsex.htmAnd attached is the transcript!xoxo
Trauma & kinks (October's #TPTT)
TW// traumaQuite a few of you have asked me to discuss trauma as it pertains to kinks/preferences. This is a huge topic so I’ll do my best to condense and simplify everything I’ve come to understand around this topic.Let’s start generally, with development of attraction/preferences, and go from there.As soon as we are able to start receiving and processing messages, meanings, images, etc. we begin to create our preferences (this begins in infancy). The beginning of our lives are shaped by who were are around – these people and early exp...
Cunnilingus! (September's live stream)
Here's the recording from September's live stream. Attached is the transcript.Link: https://www.dropbox.com/s/xplsvf4ar3zb2v8/Cunnilingus.mp4?dl=0
Condoms & dental dams (October's educational vid - early access)
I feel like we supposed to know all about condoms but most of us really don't know wtf we be talking about. And dental dams are literally just foreign objects so, this month: a couple contraceptivesLink: https://www.dropbox.com/s/87u11bi4hfpe2ow/Condoms%20%26%20Dental%20Dams.mp4?dl=0xoxo
CONSENT in real time (September's Bonus)
Yerrr, here's a quick vid about what consent looks like when we're actually with out partners. You can spice up giving/receiving consent by mixing it into your dirty talk!A great guide, provided by @Jamiejleclaire, is:Say what you wantCheck-inSay what you're going to doSay what you're doingSay what you didLink: https://www.dropbox.com/s/pfhjjv6jkog50np/OCTOBER%20BONUS%20V4.mp4?dl=0xoxo
#AskRaquelSavage (September)
Hey! The questions this month were awesome. :) I covered unpacking assigning value to your genitals, imagining having different genitals than you believe you have, how to make masturbation more interesting and more!Attached is the transcript. xoxo
Orgies (September's #TPTT)
I did things a little different this month. This isn't really a #TPTT - this is what I would consider a sample chapter if I were to write a book lol :) Enjoy this fuckery.I’ve always felt insatiable. My sexual appetite combined with being unafraid to explore led me to situations, and instigating situations, where I could have as many experiences as possible in one setting. Orgies feel very unique in terms of the amount of coordination required to organize one although often, it’s simply serendipity that is the catalyst.If I pull back th...
(Drunk) Hoe Tales - September
College edition.Link: https://www.dropbox.com/s/s68s5q8693j1ht7/HOE%20TALES%204%20V4.mp4?dl=0
Rape culture (September's educational vid - early access)
Yerr!! This month I'm discussing rape culture. Let me know if you have any questions! Side note: I don't know why I'm smiling like this during such a morbid topic lmao sjijkkkijsjsisjsjsLink: https://www.dropbox.com/s/2y5dlzx8my8bvf8/SEPTEMBER%20EDUCATIONAL%20V3.mp4?dl=0xoxo
#AskMeAnything (August's live stream)
Hey lovers! Here is the recording for August's #AskMeAnything live stream. I answered questions about overcoming unwanted feelings, dealing with stigma around STD's, my experiences with open relationships, edging, retirement, my thoughts on marriage and monogamy, etc.Link: https://www.dropbox.com/s/t8pq16zajzbjkxv/%23AskMeAnything.mp4?dl=0xoxo
Pay for your Porn! Ft. Lexual (August's Bonus)
Yerrrr! Me and Lexual got together to talk about paying for porn and how not paying for porn, among other things, contributes to rape culture. Tune in!And make sure to follow her:Twitter @Lexual__IG Elexus.JiondePatreon patreon.com/IntelexualMediaxoxoLink: https://www.dropbox.com/s/9dtlag04x6jb9sk/AUGUST%20BONUS%20VIDEO%20V7.mp4?dl=0
#AskRaquelSavage (August)
Hey! Here's August's Q&A. I answered a few questions - I focused mostly on the topic of setting boundaries.Transcript attached!xoxo
Women as perpetrators of harm (August's #TPTT)
TW// violenceI’ve never been someone who has lots of women friends. Sans context, that sentence tends to activate a RED FLAG alert – with no analysis, this warrants a side eye from most people because it suggests arrogance (which is loaded but I digress) and a woman who, perhaps, prioritizes men (which naturally feels alarming).Women friends are the basis of sisterhood and building community. There are no friendships like friendships with women, or rather, friendships with non-cishet men. For a long time, I felt badly about being a woman wi...
(Drunk) Hoe Tales - August
Yerrrrr. Another edition of slut shit. Enjoy xoxoLink: https://www.dropbox.com/s/1yy727eij7ofgt8/HOE%20TALES%203.mp4?dl=0
S*x Work (July's live stream)
Hey! Here's the recording of July's live stream on SW. I've attached the transcript - I also attached the transcript from the first stream I did on this topic which is more lecture style and has information I didn't mention in the most recent one.Enjoy xoxoLink: https://www.dropbox.com/s/hu05u9h3zpnkxb9/sex%20work%20livestream.mp4?dl=0
Psychobiology of trauma (August's educational video - early access)
Hey! This month we're going over the basics of trauma. I break down how trauma effects the brain - this is info that was given to me during school that changed how I make sense of almost everything in my life. Enjoy!xoxoLink: https://www.dropbox.com/s/7vb3c5i3pgwqzb8/AUGUST%20EDUCATIONAL.mp4?dl=0
