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Sex during quarantine - July's educational vid
Full video: https://bit.ly/2ZQXVLEAre you mf’s still quarantining or has your state opened up and you’ve ventured out? Florida is about to be shut back down again so I thought I’d make a video talking about all the ways you can SAFELY get nasty while you’re isolated! Whether you’re going digital and trying sexting, phone sex or skype-fucking your fav s*x worker, there are options. And for those quarantined with partners, I tackle boundaries, quickies and tips to spice things up!Full video: https://bit.ly/2ZQXVLExoxo
Guided meditation for Black folks by ab
To finish off the June takeover, ab (@muchobanksy) provided us with a brief and relaxing guided meditation!ab is a non-conforming queer Black and Salvdorian healer. They’re a deep advocate for complete self-sustainability. Born out of Oakland, California they embody the heart of the Black Panthers -- freeing all people is their top priority! They care about creating sovereignty from an intersectional stand point, pushing folks that experience multiple oppressions to the forefront, leading us to liberation."Letting love lead the way. No on...
#AskRaquelSavage (submission)
Ask me anything, for July! Leave questions in replies. xoxo
Decolonizing therapy by Dr. Jennifer Mullan
Soo so excited to show y’all this video by Dr. Jennifer (@decolonizingtherapy)! She’s a therapist dedicated to Decolonizing therapeutic spaces (and therapists) and she digs into why we need to politicize and decolonize our wellness and mental health practices, in order to dismantle systemic oppression and white supremacy. PERIOD! Make sure to go follow her!Full video: https://bit.ly/2YzJlce
Harm reduction and mutual aid by Tea Sierra
Peep this q&a around the importance of harm reduction, mutual aid and care work!1. What do you mean by mutual aid and care work?2. What is harm reduction? Why is it particularlyimportant right now?3. Why have alternative care models, like mutual aid organizing, becoming more popular during the COVID-19 pandemic?4. What can I do to create a mutual aid care web in my own community?5. How are practicing mutual aid and harm reduction informed by an abolitionist politic?Tea Sierra is an organizer, public scholar, yoga instructor and harm reduction p...
When a hashtag isn’t enough by August K. Clayton
An amazing piece from August about showing up AND OUT for Black trans folks - investing in and including Black trans folks in your futures and daydreams about abolition and peace. See attached for the piece.Rooted in St. Mary's County, Maryland, August Clayton (he/they) is a 22 year old writer, speaker, organizer and Black trans man committed to the survival and liberation of Black, trans people. Their work involves movement building, and reshaping policy and praxis through a Black, womanist lens.Go support them!Facebook: August K ClaytonIn...
Home again by Tiara Gendi
Our June takeover continues with a beautiful piece from @Tiarafab exploring the concept of "home" as a Black trans woman also navigating immigration. See attached for her piece and below for a bio to get to know her better.Tiara Gendi is a Human Rights defender and Trans Activist with bi-continetal experience in the fields of human rights and trans diverse community building in Africa (Zimbabwe) and here in the USA. She serves as a Steering Committee member for the Black LGBTQIA+ Migrant Project (BLMP) envisioning the emancipation of al...
26 ways to be in the struggle without being in the streets
To kick off the June takeover, "26 Ways to be in the Struggle Without Being in the Streets." Brought to you by the wonderful @Ejeris, @possiblesubject, @piperanderson1, @stillsabelo, @brownroundboi, and @bnancherla.Please go follow and support these wonderful people!Full video here: https://bit.ly/3cUKIWYxoxo
PATREON TAKEOVER
For the entire month of June I’m passing the mic to Black organizers and healers!Here’s what the Patreon takeover will include: @Ejeris, @possiblesubject, @piperanderson1, @stillsabelo, @brownroundboi, and @bnancherla will offer 26 tips for participating in the movement when you aren’t or can’t be on the ground. This post will be available on every tier. @Tiarafab will cover the struggle to find community and navigate new systems in a new country as a Black LGBTQ migrant. This post will be available on every tier except Foreplay. @Thecl...
Interview with my mom (July's bonus - submission)
For July I'm finna chat with my Momma about what it's like to be my Momma LMAO What yall want me to ask her? She's down to answer questions about being a mother to a Sex Worker, being a fucking colonizer lol, childhood stories of a young Raquel, WHATEVER!Drop your questions in the replies and we'll pick our favorites!This will drop in July and will be available to Climax and Double O! patrons.
Sex in isolation ft. Shelah Marie (May's bonus)
Yerrr! I wanted to re-post the live stream I did with Shelah as a bonus! I answer questions about navigating sex and intimacy during this quarantine shit. We talk about digital fucking, how to "keep things spicy," how trauma impacts our sex drive and more!Tap in: https://bit.ly/2TQXiPZxoxo
Discourse Ep. 4 - Solidarity
Join #KinkMediaGroup to access this post!Head over to the tiers page and choose Kink Media Group. Orchoose: Foreplay, Second Base, Third Base, Climax or Double O!PLUS Kink Media Group. This way, you get all of Raquel's contentand Kink Media Group. Once you join, you can search the tag Discourse to find every episode.On the fourth episode of Discourse: Solidarity with Black trans folx facilitated by Eli!On this episode the group discusses solidarity, exploring what the fuck that actually means. More specifically, for and with Black trans peo...
#AskRaquelSavage (May)
Year! This month I answering the following questions:1. What is your favorite porn to consume for yourself?2. How do you navigate yourself as a therapist when you have clients who come from different cultural backgrounds and therefore may have a more conservative mentality/approach than you?3. How do I talk about my sexual needs with a casual sex partner ?4. My partner is into piss play and I want to explore it but there's still some resistance in me. I don't want it to be a degrading experience - what kind of questions, conversations, ...
Budgeting, investing & taxes (May's live stream)
For this month's live stream @Rackstoriches and I sat down and talked about money! It was so insightful - this might be the first time I went back and watched a live stream to take my own notes!We talked about budgeting, saving/investing, trauma and money, finding a Sex Worker-friendly accountant and more! Tap in!Full video: https://bit.ly/2WWrZoUAnd here are the resources she dropped during the stream!Books: Money is Emotional by Christine Luken and Investing All-in-One For DummiesPodcast: BiggerPockets Real Estate Podcast and The Dave Ram...
#AskRaquelSavage (submission)
It’s that time of the month. Ask me anything!
The benefits of masturbating - May's educational video (early access)
May is National Masturbation Month — fap CITY in this hoe!! So it’s time we chat about self-pleasure and all its benefits.Full video: https://bit.ly/3dog7RVxoxo
My favorite books (April's "live stream")
Hiiiii so uhm, in place of a live stream for April I made a video showcasing my favorite books. Lil poetry, lil vagina art, some trauma info, etc. - I give yall a nice variety of options! Tap in :)Full video here: https://bit.ly/2zHhyMPxoxoPS: May's live stream is already booked, bihh, so don't worry there will be one this month! It'll be me and @RacksToRiches most likely talking about stripper shit! So start thinking of your questions for her now!
Discourse Ep. 3 - Intentional parenting
Join #KinkMediaGroup to access this post!Head over to the tiers page and choose Kink Media Group. Or choose: Foreplay, Second Base, Third Base, Climax or Double O! PLUS Kink Media Group. This way, you get all of Raquel's content and Kink Media Group. Once you join, you can search the tag Discourse to find every episode.On the third episode of Discourse: Intentional parenting facilitated by RaineyOn this episode the group discusses intentional parenting which quite literally is exploring the ways in which there is (or often isn't) intent...
#AskRaquelSavage (April)
For this month's Q&A I answered the following questions:•what are some ways to rebuild trust and closeness after infidelity?•what does the process of emotionally cutting ties look like?•what are your views on and how do you identify a "love addiction?”•I still find myself needing attention and romantic love from men even though I tell myself I don't need a man to be happy, how do you navigate that?Really fire ass questions, yall! lolTranscript attached.
Fatphobia & Sex Work (March's live stream)
Yerrr! Here's the recording for March's live stream where the brilliant Da'Shaun Harrison and I discuss fat phobia & Sex Work. Really great convo, thank you everyone for attending!Here are a few of the questions we answered:1. How does anti-fatness affect how we (sex workers) engage clients?2. How does anti-fatness in sex work inform pleasure/autonomy?3. Can fat sex workers be successful?Link: https://bit.ly/3cOEvfx(just fyi, I messed up the recording and pinned Da'Shaun's video so it's only on them the whole time lol bu...
(Drunk) Hoe Tales - April
Ever been to a swinger's club? Here's my story about taking a nigga to one on our first date LMAOLink: https://bit.ly/3cC0FS3xoxo
Healthy Relationships (April's bonus)
This month I sat down with my best friend, community organizer, dedicated advocate for Black trans people and co-host of Discourse, Eli! We talked about “healthy” relationships and all the ways we be out here moving fucked up lol and, of course, offered some tips for unpacking and being accountable.Here are a few of the questions we answered: I’ve had 3 arguments with my wife in 4 years. Is that a good thing? What is the best way to hold your partner accountable when they make a mistake? Does every relationship come with a little toxicity...
Visualizations using the senses (April's #TPTT)
This is survival writing.I typically have really well thought out topics to write about – this month, I don’t. I have no motivation, tbh. So, I’m writing for survival. Survival in terms of managing this self-isolation and still creating. Something that helps ground me and keep me sane is visualizations. It’s strange because they equally take me out of my body into another world and put me right into my body, in the here and now. I’m going to walk you through how to utilize this with me by going through all of my senses (touch, sound, ...
#AskRaquelSavage (April - submission)
Hey! Reply with questions for April's #AskRaquelSavage q&a - you can ask me anything you want and I'll choose 3-5 questions to answer!Answers will be posted in audio format next week on Third Base and up.xoxo
Healthy relationships (April’s bonus)
This month for a bonus I’m sitting down with Eli of Discourse to chat about healthy relationships. Or “healthy” relationships. Or “what the fuck even is a ‘healthy’ relationship?” LMAOWhat questions do you have for us? What should we explore around this subject? Drop your questions in the comments, we’re picking our fav 5!xoxo
5 tips for surviving the quarantine (April's educational vid - early access)
How are we managing? I'm lowkey losing it so I thought I'd make a video dropping some tips for somewhat keeping it together LMAO grab some wine or something, let's do this together. SHIT IS GETTING REAL!Link: https://bit.ly/2UOTrUAJust realized I totally forgot to add the pod mapping link! Pod mapping was created by Mia Mingus of the Bay Area Transformative Justice Collective. Here are two links I found useful for creating a pod map!Pod mapping: https://bit.ly/3a4jfAq & https://bit.ly/2xmi5Dcxoxo
Body awareness & trauma (March's bonus)
Let’s first define awareness as your ability to notice a (sensory) signal – things you smell, hear, feel, etc. For example, when you are concentrated on something you become unaware of what’s going on around you – while completely engrossed in a project, you register little else including sound. However, unless you literally cannot hear, you know that you can rely on sound to snap you back into reality and make sense of your external world. In fact, it is often essential to use sound (or your other senses) to notice changes. In those mo...
(Drunk) Hoe Tales (March)
This month for Hoe Tales me and Nas did a special episode :) We got DUMB ASS fucking lit (drank a whole bottle of nasty ass tequila) and told some of our fav WHORE stories lol including how we met and our most recent yacht day!Click here to watch the full episode: https://bit.ly/2UK3Pf7
#AskRaquelSavage (March)
This month, in collaboration with Da'Shaun Harrison, every topic on my Patreon revolved around the body. For the #AskRaquelSavage q&a, I specifically answered questions haveing to do with trauma and the body.1. What is the best way to unpack sexual trauma that you or your partner may have? How can you set the tone for that to be a peaceful/informative situation?2. How trauma affects memories.3. Ways to train your brain/body out of trauma responses.The transcript is attached!Make sure you tune in on Tuesday, March 31st at 9pm est, Da'Sha...
Erectile dysfunction & premature ejaculation (February's live stream)
Here's February's live stream recording! We covered erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation. Typically this convo is geared towards older penis-owners however, penis-owners of any age experience both of these things.Click here to watch: https://bit.ly/2TYBbI4We discussed:- What is ED and premature ejaculation?- Who experiences ED and premature ejaculation?- What' normal and what isn't- Tips for overcoming anxiety- How to support/communicate with a partner experiencing thisAnd I showcased a new device intended on helping p...
