Raquel Savage posts
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March’s #AskRaquelSavage (submission)
Hey! This month, in collaboration with Da’Shaun Harrison I’ll be focusing the Q&A on trauma and the body. Please drop your questions below — I’m answering all questions related to this topic. If you have other questions around body image, anti-fatness, etc. I’m happy to answer those as well!
Anti-fatness by Da'Shaun Harrison (March's #TPTT)
anti-fatness shows up in a variety of ways. in the fashion world, through the medical industry, through the diet industrial complex and gym culture, through the media and so much more. to gym-bodied and otherwise thin people, this term often rings hollow. for fat folks, however, even if we don’t necessarily have a fat politic, we know that the way in which the world responds to our bodies looks vastly different from how the world responds to those smaller than us.in this way, one of the greatest—whereby i mean biggest—ways anti-fatness im...
"Juicy pussy support group" The Savage Life Podcast ep. 3
Join #KinkMediaGroup to access this post!Head over to the tiers page and choose Kink Media Group. Or choose: Foreplay, Second Base, Third Base, Climax or Double O! PLUS Kink Media Group. This way, you get all of Raquel's content and Kink Media Group. Once you join, you can search the tag The Savage Life Podcast to find every episode.Ya coochie ever been so wet that you feel like it's too wet?? LMAO This month, we chat about super-lubed pussy and how it affects friction, stimulation and satisfaction. We also have a long discussion about ...
Discourse Ep. 1 - Privilege
Join #KinkMediaGroup to access this post!Head over to the tiers page and choose Kink Media Group. Or choose: Foreplay, Second Base, Third Base, Climax or Double O! PLUS Kink Media Group. This way, you get all of Raquel's content and Kink Media Group. Once you join, you can search the tag Discourse to find every episode.@KinkMediaGroup is extremely fucking excited and proud to drop this first episode of Discourse!On this episode, the group discusses privilege. Specifically, privilege that Black cishet men hold in the Black community, debunki...
DommeNation ep. 2 - kicking balls & taking cash
Join #KinkMediaGroup to access this post!Head over to the tiers page and choose Kink Media Group. Or choose: Foreplay, Second Base, Third Base, Climax or Double O! PLUS Kink Media Group. This way, you get all of Raquel's content and Kink Media Group. Once you join, you can search the tag DommeNation to find every episode.DommeNation is back for another episode breaking down the abc's of kink! What's a paypig? What's a wallet drain? (it's lit as fuck, that's what it is) What is the difference between a bottom, a slave and...
Fatphobia 101 by Da'Shaun (March's educational vid - early access)
Click this link to access the video: https://bit.ly/3cos8XTI am so excited to collaborate with Da'Shaun Harrison (they/them) for the entire month of March to give you hella content around fatphobia, body image, etc. Da'Shaun is a nonbinary abolitionist and organizer who does TONS of brilliant work around race, sexualiy, gender (dis)abilities, fatness and more.For March's educational video they're giving you an easy break down of fatphobia and the varying ways it shows up in our lives. For those who are familiar, this will be a g...
(Drunk) Hoe Tales - February
Why would a nigga fly me out and put me up in a hotel WHERE HIS WHOLE TEAM IS STAYING???? This is a stressful HOE TALES because men are SKRESS, but, what's new???Link: https://bit.ly/2T8xG1hxoxo
Imagining love (February's bonus)
Cisheteornormativity and white supremacy have ruined relationships.The cookie cutter, “2 kids and a dog” thing is white people shit. It’s cishet, white people shit. The gender roles. The performing. The expectations and rules. The monogamy as the highest, most virtuous form of love; the knight sweeping a damsel in distress off of her feet is CISHET WHITE PEOPLE SHIT. And we, assuming you are not a cishet white person, have bought into it (and actually, let me push further. Assuming you are a cishet white person, you too, have bought into ...
#AskRaquelSavage (February)
Here are the questions I answered this month!How does being in the sex industry affect your dating life?How do I communicate with a guy my standards when it comes to money? I don't want to be called old-fashioned, sexist, gold-digger etc.I’m 27 and never had sex before. I want to hire a male escort to ensure I have a good first experience - do you have any safe resources I can refer to as I start my search?How can you feel grounded, safe and secure in your sensuality if you have been chastised and gaslighted for it?What advice would you g...
B Nasty's Toy Box "Kong" Sponsored by @HoneyAdultPlay
Join #KinkMediaGroup to access this post!Head over to the tiers page and choose Kink Media Group. Or choose: Foreplay, Second Base, Third Base, Climax or Double O! PLUS Kink Media Group. This way, you get all of Raquel's content and Kink Media Group. Once you join, you can search the tag BNastysToyBox to find every episode. For @MissBNasty's second episode, she's giving yall some Valentine's day COCK via The Kong from @HoneyAdultPlay.This bihh rotates 360 degrees and some more shit. There's not much that needs to be said, ju...
#AskRaquelSavage (February - submission)
Hey! Reply with questions for Feb.'s #AskRaquelSavage q&a - you can ask me anything you want and I'll choose 3-5 questions to answer!Answers will be posted in audio format next week on Third Base and up.xoxo
Get ready with me! (January bonus)
Ok, so I'm late as fuck with the Jan bonus skjijksisjksjssis I apologize, hold me accountable! LMAO But here it is, a get ready with me vid pre-yacht day. Enjoy lolLink: https://www.dropbox.com/s/19okfvafk5wqdmj/Get%20Ready%20With%20Me.mp4?dl=0xoxo
Dear Jealousy (February's #TPPT)
I did things a little different this month - I ripped a page out of my diary to show yall how I process in real time. This isn't necessarily a linear "piece," this is literally me working things out with myself mid-trigger, to process. Hope this gives yall some insight on how to a) better tolerate your least favorite feelings and b) take some time to process before reacting. Dear Jealousy,I’m knee-deep in crippling anxiety right now.A lover told me about another woman they’re seeing. In most cases, I would be incredibly happy fo...
"No abortions, no birth control, no guns" The Savage Life Podcast ep. 2
Join #KinkMediaGroup to access this post!Head over to the tiers page and choose Kink Media Group. Or choose: Foreplay, Second Base, Third Base, Climax or Double O! PLUS Kink Media Group. This way, you get all of Raquel's content and Kink Media Group. Once you join, you can search the tag The Savage Life Podcast to find every episode. This month on @SavageLifePod we're chatting about orgasms, sex work and street harassment.For #JustTheTip we answered these questions:“how do I get over someone I never actually dated but developed feelin...
Onlyfans 101 (January's live stream)
I know yall have been patiently waiting for this recording so, here you go! January's live stream features @MissBNasty - we spoke about all the basics of Onlyfans. Starting from scratch, cornering your market, producing content, marketing, maximizing earnings, etc. We also discussed options for anonymity for folks who may want to do OF on the low and so much more.We had a great time doing this, hope it's helpful!Link: https://www.dropbox.com/s/ghvl53dd3xyma7z/Onlyfans%20101.mp4?dl=0xoxo
Trauma & stress responses (February's educational vid - early access)
For February I wanted to explore some shit I've been seeing on the TL re: the jokes about WW3. This context is pretty specific however, everything I discuss can be applied more broadly to all trauma/stress responses, coping, etc.Link: https://www.dropbox.com/s/hdthjatcz3cl1s0/Trauma%20%26%20Stress%20Responses.mp4?dl=0xoxo
Ethical non-monogamy (submit your questions)
What do you want to know about ethical non-monogamy, toxic monogamy culture, managing jealousy, etc.? Questions? Topics?
Introducing: Discourse
Join #KinkMediaGroup to access #Discourse!Head over to the tiers page and choose Kink Media Group. Or choose: Foreplay, Second Base, Third Base, Climax or Double O! PLUS Kink Media Group. This way, you get all of Raquel's content and Kink Media Group. Once you join, you can search the tag Discourse to find every episode. FUCK shop talk. Discourse is critical, nuanced discussion facilitated by 7 Black trans men, cis men and non-binary folks unafraid to tackle topics men otherwise sweep under the rug. Each host speaks from personal experience...
Searchability
Do yall actually use the tags to search content on here? If yes, would it help if I added tags to posts that also include the topic being discussed?For example, I tag every educational video "video" but I could also tag "grounding techniques" "abortion" etc. (whatever the topic of the actual content is). I'm asking b/c I keep hearing people say it's difficult to find shit on here and I'll add this feature but yall gotta actually use it or else I'm not doing it LMFAO
#AskRaquelSavage (January)
Hey lovelies! Here are the questions I covered this month!1. Tips for dating/hooking up as a queer woman. Cis men are so easy but approaching everyone else seems daunting!2. I notice that I "rush" myself to get to orgasm. Have you ever felt that and do you have any suggestions on how to combat it?3. How do you work on overcoming baggage from a previous relationship and the feeling of "forever alone?"4. What are some tools that a person can use to work through loneliness/sadness? I’m finding myself: excessively drinking/eating,...
(Drunk) Hoe Tales - January
A human centipede of ass eating??? YES MA'AM. (I'm realizing I have lots of orgy stories skjijksijsks)xoxo
B Nasty's Toy Box "Jubilee" Sponsored by @HoneyAdultPlay
Join #KinkMediaGroup to access this post!Head over to the tiers page and choose Kink Media Group. Or choose: Foreplay, Second Base, Third Base, Climax or Double O! PLUS Kink Media Group. This way, you get all of Raquel's content and Kink Media Group. Once you join, you can search the tag BNastysToyBox to find every episode. For @MissBNasty's first episode, she's unveiling the clitoral licking tongue butterfly: JUBILEE from @HoneyAdultPlay.Tune in to hear her full breakdown of the Jubilee (apparently, this one is a BANGER. "You&#...
#AskRaquelSavage (January - submission)
Yerr! Reply with questions for January's #AskRaquelSavage q&a - you can ask me anything you want and I'll choose 3-5 questions to answer!Answers will be posted in audio format next week on Third Base and up.xoxo
DommeNation ep. 1 - golden showers, toilet slaves & femdom basics
Join #KinkMediaGroup to access this post!Head over to the tiers page and choose Kink Media Group. Or choose: Foreplay, Second Base, Third Base, Climax or Double O! PLUS Kink Media Group. This way, you get all of Raquel's content and Kink Media Group. Once you join, you can search the tag DommeNation to find every episode.Kink Media Group is so excited to share the first episode of #DommeNation hosted by Dominatrix Ashley Paige and Mistress Marley! Watch as they introduce themselves and Black Femme Supremacy. They also cover a few basics of ...
"Where the fat bitches at?!" The Savage Life Podcast ep. 1
Join #KinkMediaGroup to access this post!Head over to the tiers page and choose Kink Media Group. Or choose: Foreplay, Second Base, Third Base, Climax or Double O! PLUS Kink Media Group. This way, you get all of Raquel's content and Kink Media Group. Once you join, you can search the tag The Savage Life Podcast to find every episode. WE BYKE IN THIS BITCH!! This episode we discuss body image, white peen and tight coochie (or rather, tight coochie propaganda).We're also doing a new segment every episode called #JustTheTip where we answer...
Retiring from s*x work (January's #TPPT)
Last night I got a facetime call from a regular. I just so happened to be on the phone with my mom.“T is calling…”“Will you answer it?”“Selling pussy is like an addiction,” I told her.If I answered this call, then I’ve answered a call. And if I’ve answered a call then I might as well answer the next one. Or call back the ones I’ve ignored over the past week. Or send a maintenance nude to someone who hasn’t called in a while. If I relapse, even just once, then I’m diving right tf back in.My inner dialogue goes:“…I don...
Body image featuring Professor Gaia (December’s live stream)
Here's the recording for December's live stream featuring Professor Gaia! We briefly discussed body dysmorphia; how to unpack fatphobia and navigate social media; and some more shit. And we also talked about building confidence and self-love. I really appreciate everyone who tuned into this and was willing to be vulnerable with us. This was definitely one of my favorite live streams!Make sure to follow and support Professor Gaia:Instagram: @gaiagraphy101Twitter: @professor_GAIAThe transcript is attached.(Also, this is my first time usin...
Grounding techniques (January's educational vid - early access)
Happy New Year, fuckers! Let's start this motherfucker off right by learning some nice, calming grounding techniques that get us embodied and relaxed! There are so many to choose from and the perfect way to help with stress and anxiety, among other things. In this vid I also share some of my fave grounding tips :)Link: https://www.dropbox.com/s/hh2ytmfdzt2m0c3/breathing%20techniques.mp4?dl=0(TW// for mention of self-harm)
(Drunk) Hoe Tales - December
Everybody loves a gay cheerleader. High school was ...wildLink: https://www.dropbox.com/s/3nj90n28f1k96w2/DECEMBER%20HOE%20TALES.mp4?dl=0xoxo
#AskRaquelSavage (December)
This month I answered these submission questions:1. In your opinion, if you're with someone that's not well-endowed, what are the best positions for a woman to reach orgasm vaginally?2. TW: self-harm. Not sure if you’ve spoken about this before but maybe self-harm as a coping mechanism or shame as an emotion and how to cope with it.And since there were only 2 questions, I also expanded on a recent tweet of mine about creating space for “no’s” to exist.xoxo
